I have made mistakes and I will continue to make mistakes. I am sorry if my mistakes have hurt you. I can’t go back and change it if I could I would. Sometimes I learn from the mistakes, but sometimes I continue to do the same habits that cause those mistakes. So if I keep hurting why can’t you help me stop? My mistakes might seem like I dont care about you, or I think I’m older/better than you, but it’s not. It’s me having built up emotions that I don’t get out at the right time. So I could be making those mistakes because I’m anxious, excited, sad, mad etc. But for you to go bring up past mistakes that I’m ashamed about just makes me have more mistakes. It’s not putting me “in check”, it just feels like bullying. That hurts more than a regretted mistake I’ve made. Maybe fix your aprouch so I don’t make any more mistakes.